Rookie dating mistakes

Don’t use always or never: This always works, this will never work.
Depends on the circumstances.
However there are general rules.

First date can be when you first met her and got the number.
Next date should be simple and casual – coffee or a drink.
Never do dinner and a movie as a first date.

Never bring flowers and candy.
Don’t say I like country music too!
Don’t give up your power for acceptance.

Lead.
Make decisions.
Pay.

Make eye contact when appropriate.
Tease.
Be playful.
Be interesting. Live an interesting life.
Tell stories.
Listen.

Touch as much as possible.
Physically escalate.
Go for the kiss early.
Bounce a couple times.
Fail fast and fail often.

Be cool to her friends. She will ask them about you, you want them to like you.
Win her friends over, their opinion matters a lot.
If you meet her with friends, isolate her so you can get to know each other.

Don’t be a dancing monkey.
Don’t be boxed in.
Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not.
Don’t be a jerk.
Don’t be a wussy.

Don’t be a scrub.
Dress appropriately.
Put your damn cell phone away.
Show her a cool video on your cell (exception to the cell phone rule).
Don’t judge.
Would you date you?
Bring high, positive energy.
Keep skeletons in the closet for 1st date.